10 Quick Tricks to Spot When Someone Is Lying 10個快速發現對方是否在說謊的妙招
1.他們避免眼神接觸。
2. Their gestures won't match what they are
saying. For example, they may be saying, "Yes, I finished the report"
but their head is shaking in a slight "no" motion.
2.他們的動作會配不上他們說的話,舉例來說,他們會說著「恩,我會完成報告。」但他們的頭會微微搖動說「不」。
3. They avoid facing the person and may
turn their head or body away from you.
3.他們會避免正面面對那個人,而且可能會把他們的頭或身體轉離你。
4. Their expressions become limited.
Instead of their whole face being part of what they are saying, they push back
part of their face or hold still.
4.他們的表情會受到限制,他們開始不會用整張臉來配合他們所要說的話,他們會一直擺著一種表情。
5. They waffle. Instead of "I didn't
do it," they may say, "I wouldn't do anything like that."
5.他們會開始說一些無關緊要的話,他們不會說「我沒有做過。」反而他們可能會說「我才不會做那樣的事。」
6. They frequently proclaim that they're
telling the truth, with phrases like to be honest, believe me, or to tell the
truth.
7. When asked a question they're not
prepared for, they may take long pauses as they create the next sequence of
events.
7.當問起一些他們沒有準備過的問題,他們會暫停一段時間,並借此編造接下來的故事。
8. They may muddle their sentences together
when speaking rather than following usual patterns of emphasis.
8.他們講話可能會模糊不清,句子中的重點音節可能會放錯。
9. They will often reply in a way that
echoes the question. If you ask, "Is the spreadsheet done, because I don't
have it on my desk," they may say, "Yes, it's done, and I put it on
your desk."
9.他們常常會用問句中的話來作為回答,假設你問「表單真的完成了嗎?我在我的桌子上沒有看到。」他們可能會說,「對阿,我已經完成了,而且我放在你的桌子上。」
10. They may frequently touch their face,
throat or mouth, scratch their nose or ear, or generally appear fidgety.
10.他們可能會很頻繁地摸他們的臉、喉嚨或嘴巴,抓脖子或耳朵,坐立不安也是很常見的反應。